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Getting your ex back fast is very much like bringing down a cat stuck high up on a tree. Cat doesn’t want to come down, you don’t know how to reach it and neither of you is happy. So here’s 4 sure shot ways to bring down the cat…umm, get your ex back fast.
Call for Help – Really. Even if relationships are personal matters, it’s obvious that you screwed up big time. You need expert advice and help from a professional – be it a family member, close friend or a therapist. Another factor in favor of calling in outside help is that it gives you an objective view – something very much lacking in a broken relationship.
Learn to Climb – Here’s the thing – your cat is up on a tree, and you have to get it down, so take a deep breath and start climbing. In other words, reach out to where your ex is, in terms of what she wants from you. The argument and breakup was likely was about something your ex wanted from you – which you were unable to do or provide. So do it.
Get another Cat – It may sound wacky, but sometimes, the best way to get something you really, badly want is to stop wanting it. Move on with your life – start dating, find something to keep yourself occupied. If your obsession over your ex goes away, you’ll see the world in a new light, and your ex will notice the change in you and suddenly want you back – trust me. It works.
Buy new Cat food – Looks matter, especially in a broken relationship. You can bet your last dollar on the fact that your ex is your ex because he or she was feeling less attracted to you than before. Spare a few thoughts to think about what your ex first liked in you, and whether you have lost that ‘magic.’ If you have, then get it back – new haircut, new clothes, cologne, whatever… The raw heat of physical attraction will make all other problems in a relationship go away or seem trivial.
write by Enda