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Are you longing to make him fall in love with you? Do you want your man to hurry up and realize that you’re The One for him? Is he a little slow to catch on to your need for commitment? You are not alone! There are many tried and tested ways to capture your man’s heart forever and make him fall in love with you. It’s easier than you think!
One thing you should know before we go any further, once a guy falls in love he tends to fall hard. Men love to be in love. When they find their true love, they give it their all. If you’re sure you are ready for this level of commitment from your guy, read on.
It’s a difficult world that we live in today. In many cases relationship roles are reversed with the woman earning more than the man, which can leave the guys wondering about their purpose in the relationship. Maybe you or your guy grew up in a family with reversed roles and secretly long for the good old days when a guy went out to work while his girl stayed home. One thing is for sure, the old rules seem to have gone out of the window and left a trail of confusion in their place.
Figure out what you want. Are you the career type or do you dream of being a stay at home mom? Be honest with yourself, this is the rest of your life we’re talking about. Once you know your true calling, move on to thinking about your guy. Does his dream woman match up with the real you? If so, great, it’ll be easy to make him fall in love with you. If not, maybe you should question why you’re trying to win his heart. If you want completely different things then he may not be the guy for you.
If you are sure you’ve got the right guy, let’s look at some easy ways to make him realize that you’re the one for him. The world may be a different place these days but deep in our hearts we all know that the old ways work best when it comes to love.
He wants to see that you’re making an effort for him. Make sure you dress well, take care with your appearance and really think about what your look is saying to him. If you know he likes you to dress a certain way then indulge him. To make sure he’s noticed the effort you’ve made for him, ask him if he likes your outfit. He will appreciate that you considered his opinion about something as personal as your clothes.
Although you don’t want to be overly groomed, do make an effort with your hair and make-up. He can wait until you’re married with two kids to see you bleary eyed with matted hair, for now you need to look as beautiful and healthy as possible to help win him over. Use conditioners on your hair to give it a glossy shine and make sure to get it cut regularly. Invest in some good skincare products. Exfoliate in the shower to keep your skin soft. Always wear a little make-up and use your make-up play on your best features.
Have fun with him! Smile, laugh, add sunshine to his day. Steer the conversation to fun things that you can do together to help him to see you as a more permanent part of his life. Avoid conversations about commitment, moving in together or how many kids you want as this may come across as you coming on too strong. These subjects will be covered naturally as he falls in love with you and your relationship deepens. You don’t need to push it.
Don’t be too obvious about your motives, you don’t want to scare him off. If you’re constantly telling him that you love him he might panic and try to cool things off between you. Instead, use the word ‘love’ in other ways. ‘I love spending time with you’. ‘I love how we laugh at the same things’. Introduce the word into your daily language in a non-threatening way and when you finally do tell him you love him, it will seem like the most natural thing in the world.
Be patient. Remember that guys do not like to be rushed. They like to think they make all the major decisions, this is one fact that hasn’t changed with modern day roles! You should make sure you massage his ego a little each time you see him, it will make him feel good about himself and he will want to spend more time with you and deepen the relationship.
If you keep things light-hearted in this way, it will be easy to make him fall in love with you. Enjoy each other’s company, enjoy life together and avoid heavy, stressed conversations about commitment. Before you know it you won’t have to make him fall in love with you. He’ll have fallen in love with you all on his own.
write by GUETZOIAN YERVANT ( ED )