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Discovering how to get her back is meant to be just a small part of a much larger overall strategy to get your ex to return to you.
Getting her back may not be that difficult, but it will take some judgment and some planning to do this properly and be successful.
If you are still genuinely in love then you will find the initial stage in this plan quite difficult to implement. Right now I reckon all you want to do is to hold her in your arms and talk to her, well it’s actually very important that you do the exact opposite and cut off all communication completely!
We have to arouse feeling in your ex of curiosity and desire, and the best way to do this is to remove all contact, so no text messages no emails, nothing via face book etc for about a month.
During this time you should try and take as much rest and relaxation as you can. You must have been through a tough time lately and that will have drained your emotional resources and your stress levels will have been at an all time high too!
So take a breather, if you are due a vacation take it, if not have a weekend or two away stay over with friends or family, whatever you can but just take a break from the normal routine.
After a couple of weeks go out with friends, do the full Friday and Saturday night routine, bars clubs, meals whatever, get out and about, be positive not morose.
If possible date a girl or two, not seriously, but demonstrate to your friends and hopefully hers that you are quite capable of getting over her and moving on with your life.
Appearance is also very important and one that too many men overlook, especially when they have been in a relationship for a long time.
How many times have you arrived at her door dressed in jeans and a T-shirt?
Get yourself cleaned up, wear some nice clothes for a change and just put some effort in to your appearance.
Look, I know how it feels to lose the love of your life. I have been there and been through it. You can actually get your ex back if you just follow the right plan. It ain’t rocket science!
write by Kaylin