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If you have recently split from a partner, you would be in the same position that I found myself a couple of months ago. However, I tried a few tips and hints that I was given by friends and relatives, and they worked for me so they can work for you too! This is how I worked out the answer to getting my ex back!
First of all, I had to work out if it was worth me getting my ex back. Was our relationship more good than bad, and we just hadn’t realized it because we had gone through a rough patch? When he walked out on me, I was devastated and I had to do something to change that. The first thing I did, was to distance myself from him, his friends and his family. Being around him was too hard as I was still angry and upset, and I needed time to calm down.
This is what you need. A few weeks by yourself to work out if the relationship is worth fighting for, and what you are going to do about it. The next thing I did, when I realized that getting my ex back was the right choice for me, was to go to the beauty salon. I had my hair done, I got waxed, had a manicure and I walked out feeling a million dollars. I felt better about myself, and I was ready to face the world, and my ex! This is a good tip for you. Make yourself feel better and those feelings of hurt and anger will diminish. You can then go about trying to get your ex back.
The good thing is, this works for both men and women. Men can go out and buy new clothes, have a hair cut, perhaps get a wax too, and they will feel better about themselves, just as I did. Once you are prepared to fight for your man, (or woman) then you need to have a plan. You want him or her to realize that they can’t live without you. Looking gorgeous and feeling great will send off signals to him or her, and they will see exactly why they fell in love with you in the first place. Agree to meet up for a drink or a chat, and be funny and calm and graceful. Do not start screaming or getting upset, just explain in a calm and adult manner that you miss him or her and that you want them back.
Getting my ex back was easy, compared to others that I have spoken to, but it can be for you too. If you feel good about yourself, your partner will notice this and more than likely will want you back. Getting back together wasn’t as hard as I thought it was and the whole process was down to making more of an effort. He didn’t want to see me in my scruffs everyday, and by proving that I could make this effort was proof to him that I wanted to change. We are now together and stronger than ever and the same can work for you too!
write by Meredith