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“My girlfriend just left me because I was a jerk. She was the best thing that ever happened to me. I miss her and I want her back. But how do I do it? How can I get my girlfriend back if I’ve been a real jerk.”
Let’s face it, we all make mistakes in life. And unfortunately we don’t always appreciate someone special until they’re gone.
You treated your girlfriend unkindly and heartlessly so she walked out on you. You acted like a jerk and thus didn’t deserve her. But now you realize that you care for her and truly miss her, and you wish you wouldn’t have treated her so callously.
Don’t despair! There is still a chance that you can get her back. But it will take some work on your part.
The first thing you will need to do to get your girlfriend back is to admit to her that you were a jerk. So if she calls you a jerk, a loser, a womanizer, and various other slimy names, agree with her. You’re not going to get her back by arguing with her. Let her have her say. Being contrite and humble will help get her back.
And of course you will need to change. Every person, especially a woman, wants to be treated like they’re special. Make her feel important. Make her feel like a queen. Act like and become a gentleman. Don’t tell her but show her that you have changed.
Do the little things that are so important in a relationship:
· Open the door for her.
· Be kind and considerate.
· Tell her how lovely she looks.
· Value her ideas and opinions
· Show her you really care about her and her friends.
· Give her a gift, card, or flowers for no special reason.
· Be and act proud when you are with her.
· Respect her feelings and be there for her when she needs comfort.
Because you have been such a jerk, you’ll also need to convince her friends and family that you have really changed. If they too can see that you have altered your ways, they will be on your side in your quest to get her back.
And finally, reflect on the future. Will the “new and improved gentleman” you be a permanent thing? If not, then you will soon lose her again, but this time it will be forever!
The choice is yours. You can change for the better and get your ex girlfriend back, or you can continue being a jerk living a lonely and forlorn life.
write by Duane