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If you are wondering “How to get back my girlfriend” an important step in the right direction is to understand a few important things about female psychology. Have you ever wondered how and why women are so extremely attracted to some men and don’t even recognize other men? I will now give you some insight to the female mind to help you – not only with how to win back your girlfriend, but also to understand women better than most men will ever do.
You see people are not attracted to each other by accident- evolution is not based on chance. There are a lot of important psychological factors kicking in when humans are attracted to, and eventually decide to settle down with someone.
Men and women are not created equal. Female attraction differs from men’s. Have you seen those couples where the woman is strikingly beautiful and the man appears, at least to an untrained eye to be.. Well, unattractive? Why is that?
The secret lies in the difference between male and female attraction. While men, in general, are most attracted to a woman’s physical attributes, women are most attracted to a man’s behavior. The apparently unattractive man with the much more attractive girlfriend, consciously or unconsciously knows how to behave around women.
Your ex girlfriend wasn’t attracted to you by accident either. The problem is that most men don’t know which of their qualities that naturally attract women. During a long-term relationship, a lot of their attractive traits vanish. Often when a relationship ends no one knows what really happened- all they know is that the attraction they used to feel for each other, just isn’t there anymore. Most of this happens on an unconscious level so most women won’t be able to tell you what happened either.
So, what are these unattractive traits? When you ask the question “How to get back my ex girlfriend?” – What you really need to ask is ” What drove her away?”
Women are NOT attracted to insecure men. Think about it- were you insecure when the two of you first got together? Did you always ask for her opinion on everything from what shirt you should wear, where you should go, what you should do, what you should eat, how good you where in bed? Were you jealous? -Always asking her about other men? I don’t think so.
When we first get in to relationships we enter as self-dependent individuals with a lot to offer the other person. We are two individuals used to live our life as we want, we have our interests, dreams, passions and friends. It is obviously wonderful to be a twosome- but it’s easy to fall into the habit of using your partner as a crutch. As the relationship develops, many men start acting like insecure, obedient and lovesick puppies- and this behavior will eventually make the woman lose attraction!
So if you want to know how to win back your girlfriend, this is the time to reflect on your past behavior and find out if this could have had something to do with the breakup. And do something about it! Get back to the confident, active and passionate person you know you can be! And before you know it, she will be begging you to come back!
write by Drusilla