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You’re frustrated with the blind dates that turned into losers and liars, but you found a great dating service this time. This one requires you to come in so they can meet you face-to-face and screens everyone to weed out the bad people. Their focus is relationship like-minded singles and they helped you with your profile so you would be matched to the person looking for the same thing.
They’ve set you up for your first date and you believe this is your match made in Heaven. His profile is exactly what you’ve been looking for and you’re excited to meet him tonight.
While you’re preparing for your date, make a list of things you need to do and a list of questions to ask him. You must be worried that he won’t like you and that’s normal for most singles. You’ve dreamed that your first date would turn into a romantic relationship, but there are 5 things you must do.
1-Wear sensible clothing-Dress nice with slacks, a nice colorful blouse that accents your skin, hair and eyes. Do not wear a low- cut blouse or he will get the wrong idea. Wear flats or a small heel shoe, but no tennis shoes. Wear small earrings that don’t dangle down to your shoulders. Your jewelry should be dainty and light without the flash.
2-Conversation-You should have your list of questions, but he may start the conversation first. Make it interesting without sounding like a drill sergeant. You can ask light questions, such as; what type of work do you do, do you have pets, do you like dancing, what’s your favorite food, etc.
3-Hobbies and interests-This is the most important part of the conversation because it brings out common interest between the both of you. Hopefully you made a list, so start asking what his hobbies are. Let him know what you like to do, what your hobbies are and you just might find things in common. This is the most important part to a relationship. It keeps a couple interested in each other and they’re not boring, because there are always things for them to do together.
4-Be yourself-Some people pretend they’re someone they’re not, trying to make a good impression. This usually backfires because your date can see through you and will wonder if you can be trusted or are you deceiving trying to cover something up. They’re looking for a long-lasting romantic relationship just as you are, and if they believe you are putting up a pretense, they will end the date.
5-After the first date-If he hasn’t called within a week, feel free to call him and let him know you enjoyed the evening and you would like to do it again. He probably got busy with work and other activities and just hasn’t had time to call. He will more than likely ask you out again.
If you think this is your dream guy, don’t be afraid to tell him how you feel. Take it slow and don’t tell him on the first or second date. If you were matched properly, and you followed the 5 things outlined for you, then your first date can turn into a romantic relationship.
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