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If your ex has walked out of your life then crying your eyes out will not help you in any way. You will need to put these tips on how to win him/her back into action if you want your ex to run back into your eager arms.
Let him/her go
There is no point in whining after the virtual horse has bolted out of the stable. Your ex would be determined to break off the relationship in the heat of the moment and stopping him/her will only result in an angry revolt.
You should agree to the breakup so as to stun your ex and take the hot wind out of his/her anger.
Change your mindset completely
Instead of constantly replaying the breakup in your mind and getting frustrated by ruminating on “what/if” scenarios, change your mindset completely and shift the focus only on your own life.
You need to pick up the pieces of your life and move out on your own. Get back to your job, mingle with your loved ones and try to get your social life back in order. Your mind will be set free from the shackles that you have imposed on yourself.
An excellent way of releasing pent-up anger and frustration is to work out in a gym or engage in any other form of physical exercise.
This will not only make you fit and release all your anger, but also help you get noticed by your ex, who will now feel rivers of desire running within him/her.
Make concrete resolutions
If you had erred then you should certainly make concrete resolutions to right the wrong. You can ask for forgiveness from your ex but do not pressurize him/her into accepting your apology as he/she might still be angry with you.
Remain in eye and voice contact
Do not vanish completely from your ex’s life or try to cling on to him/her. Instead remain within eye contact with your ex during parties. You can also call up your ex by using excuses such as asking about a particular matter that he/she handled in the past.
This will allow both of you to remain in touch with each other without feeling threatened or pressurized and allow love a chance to blossom again.
Lead your ex back into the past
Whenever you do get a chance to talk casually with your ex, make sure that you tactfully talk about the fun that both of you had in the past.
This will activate your ex’s emotional cells and he/she will surely start missing those good old times.
Introspect and then call for a reunion meeting
You should now seriously think on how you can prevent such a meltdown from occurring in the future and call upon your ex to sit down with you and thrash out a solution.
Both of you can now walk down a “get back together” path and plan a future of togetherness again. These tips will help dissolve all anger within yourself and your ex, and enable you to win him/her back into your life.
write by Marwan Mousa