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If you’re going through a breakup, I’m sure the question “Can I get my ex boyfriend back?” is going through your mind on a frequent basis. Of course because no two relationships are the same every break up will be different as well. Despite this, there are many things that anyone can do to get their ex boyfriend back.
First of all, be nice! That may seem obvious, but many people use nagging and pleading to try to get their ex boyfriend back. That’s the worst thing you can do and it will only serve to remind him of the things he didn’t like and is trying to get away from. Making things unpleasant will only make him want to see you even less.
Obviously this is the opposite of what you want to happen. So make sure you are as nice as possible around him. You don’t want to overdo it as it will seem fake, but be genuinely friendly.
Perhaps you’re thinking, “can I get my ex boy friend back if I pretend to be a different sort of person?” If that’s the case, you should ask yourself why you want to get back together with him anyway. The purpose of a relationship is to be able to be who you are so if you can’t do this you should consider finding someone else.
The other thing about being friendly and nice to him is that it will remind you to focus on the positive aspects of the relationship you had with him. Obviously there were problems, otherwise you might still be together. But it will help in your dealings with him now.
As well as being nice, and avoiding the temptation to put any pressure on him, there are other things you can do that may seem counterintuitive but will help you get your boyfriend back. However you may be asking this question:
“Can I get my ex boyfriend back if he has got another girlfriend?”
This is certainly a problem that is very difficult to overcome. For a start, it will be difficult to get some time alone with him if he has a new partner. He will also be more focussed on his new relationship than with you. In this situation it is even more critical that you are nice to him. You want to show him he would be better off with you than the other girl as you make him feel good when you are around (she may not).
Here’s another question people often ask:
“Can I trick my ex boyfriend into getting back with me?”
Well the short answer to this is – no, not ever. Any dishonesty will backfire on you big time. Even exaggerating things will put you in a bad light if he later finds out (and he probably will). Make it your policy that you will not be dishonest, no matter how tempting it might seem.
“Can I get my ex boyfriend back by making him jealous?”
This is something that is possible, but it is also dangerous. After all, you don’t want him to think you have moved on from the relationship and are therefore no longer available. It could make him move away from you even faster.
Also, it’s very unfair on the person you go out with if it’s just to get back at your ex boyfriend. Again, being honest with everyone (including yourself) will be much better in the long run.
But if you’re considering going out with someone just to make your ex jealous, that’s not really fair to your date, or you. Games like this usually don’t work. Be honest with yourself and others, and you stand a better chance of getting back together with your ex.
These are just some initial steps in winning your ex back. However they will provide a framework that will give you a much greater chance of success.
write by Randolph