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After doing this one thing, your girlfriend will be more intensely attracted to you, she will want to be around you more, AND she will be less motivated to have a “wandering eye”.
So what’s this special trick?
I’m going to tell you in a bit, but first I want to help you get a glimpse into the life of the typical young woman in college…
The average girl in university is TRAPPED.
Yes. It’s true. Most 20 year old girls – especially if they’re hot – are being told what to do by just about everyone they know.
Let’s start with her parents. Daddy feels very insecure about sending his baby off to school. One way or another, he wants to make sure his girl is safe and secure. Each dad may have a different approach, but most dads are probably trying to tell their daughters what to do all the time. If they’re not telling their daughter what to do, they’re silently disapproving of what their daughter does, and she knows it.
A university girl’s friends are extremely important to her. She is often constrained by the expectations of her girlfriends, who expect her to act a certain way at certain times.
College girls also have to deal with the expectations of their boyfriends. It is also EXTREMELY common to see hot girls with boyfriends that are just a tad overly jealous and controlling. So now they always have to deal with that as well.
Like I said, university girls are TRAPPED. Everywhere they turn, someone is trying to tell them how they should act. That’s exactly why when you ENCOURAGE HER TO BE INDEPENDENT, she will love you for it.
That’s the secret. Encourage her to be independent. Encouraging her to be independent also shows that YOU are independent. It makes you more attractive to her. When you are needy and clingy, she likes you less and less. Neediness is death to attraction. When you do the opposite, simple as it sounds, she will see you in a VERY unique way, because nobody else is telling her to be independent. Jealousy is such a bad quality. It’s so bad, that being jealous actually INCREASE the likelihood that she will cheat. Don’t be jealous, encourage her independence. She will start thinking of you as “one in a million” because in reality, you are.
She will also appreciate having the chance to spread her wings a bit.
The next time she wants to have a girl’s night out, tell her to have fun! In fact, suggest it. If she wants to go do something, or try something new, be the person who supports her. You can even jokingly help her find another guy so she can get off your back! Just remember when you do this, find the nerdiest dude in the crowd and say, “He looks like your type!” She’ll usually laugh. Try it. Go chat with your girl right now, and get her to talk about what she wants to do that she hasn’t done yet. Then go tell her to go do it! Give her strong words of encouragement. I might say, “Baby, I see so much potential in you that you’d probably be surprised. When you talk about doing X, honestly I’m surprised that you haven’t done it yet because I know you’re so much more capable than that… Go do it! I know you can handle it…”
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