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One of the hardest situations any man can go through is the one in which you find yourself on the losing end of a breakup, then soon thereafter finding out that ex girlfriend is dating someone else. Of course, since the breakup is brand new, you still have feelings for her, and every time you think about her, your heart just wants to jump out of your chest. Of course, if you really are in love with her, you can either roll over and let her new boyfriend take over, or you can steal her back for yourself from her new man. If you want her back, read on…
When you finally decide she’s worth stealing back, you need to take a few initial steps. The first step you need to take is to completely wipe the jealousy out of your system. It won’t be easy, as jealousy is a very natural and strong feeling, but you have to if you want any chance of her coming back to you. She (and he) will see your jealousy and desperation as a sign of weakness and will completely forget about you and will especially forget about your efforts to steal her back.
While you’ll find lots of advice that says you should completely ignore her, that is terrible advice. If she hadn’t found another man, that would be great advice, but if she has already moved on, like she has in this case, you want to stay in contact and increase your level of friendship with her.
write by Erastus